What can you do to promote resilience in your child’s life? Modeling resilience ourselves is an excellent strategy. Building resilience in children involves three parts. Useful phrases when building resilience What are we doing at GAP to teach resilience?  GAP, we love to help children learn to be increasingly resilient. This could be by: Our commonly used resilience phrases at GAP: “Ich schaffe das!” (I can do it!) “Auf machen, bitte?” (please open this for me) “Wer moechte mir helfen?” (who wants to help? (wipe tables, for example)) “Du hast es geschafft!” (You did it!)